Boys?

Oh, boys. Boys boys, boys boys boys. Boys will always be boys. Some will be attractive, while others...well, uhm, are not as attractive. As a pubescent girl, and with these raging hormones  boys have been the number one thing on my mind lately. Im sure also to other girls who are at the stage of those raging hormones  Anyways, back to boys. When we were younger, we watched movies about how the underrated girl would always have a happy ending and end up dating the hottie of the school......WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER. What is this?!?! Now it seems, that every single boys has two things on their mind: Ass and Tits. Seriously. NOW, im not completely positive about how the boys in your class are, but im pretty sure a good amount only thinks that. I always wonder, "Do boys fanticize about loving relationships like I do?". The answer is a 50/50 kind of thing, depending on that person. But, I seriously do wonder, Is there a boy like that? 

Now we females ask, what is that? That thing that we're looking for in a guy? It's something more than just looks and it's something less than just charisma. Wait, I know the answer. That is someone like our precious celebrity crush(bias). Im not sure about all girls because im not a generalizing kind of person, but I know that a good 85% of girls at the age of puberty are looking for someone that is something like our bias. Well, it makes sense though. What got you attracted to your bias, is probably going to get you attracted to people who have that quality. But to all girls who think that they are forever lonely and will never find someone like their bias, don't worry, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Unlike most girls where I live, I am one picky chooser. My friends know that I have a list with all the qualities my future boyfriend must have, and they constantly make fun of me because of that, saying that I will end up dieing alone with a bunch of cats. But honestly, I think it's good Im picky.( One thing my mama has always told me was to ALWAYS play hard to get, then you would know if that person truly loves you if they are willing to still seek you out. ) No, but really, I have a few friends that any guy they see that is flirty, they will jump on. But, I don't want a relationship like that. I want a boy who can really carry out emotions in a relationship well, other than just sex and shit. So, my advice to girls, is to always play hard to get and never ever ever be easy, unlike my friend. Always know who you are and don't let a guy just get to you easily. Make up a list in your mind of what you want, so you don't easily fall for someone that cannot give you a real relationship. Of course, we all get desperate and we all just want a relationship badly, but good things come to those who wait. So girls, dont feel alone out there because your friends have relationships and you don't. Just know that one day, you'll have a relationship even better, and you'll be even more happier.

-Shay Lynn